"The acting out was bad, but the lie is far worse"
"How can I stay in relationship with someone who lies to me?"
"What's wrong with me? How did I miss this?
"Who can I talk to about this....most of my family won't understand."

Have these thoughts been racing around in your head? You are not alone.

Every day another partner discovers that their spouse or significant other has a big secret that they knew nothing about... Sometimes a hidden life that is practically unimaginable. The pain and destruction of a newly discovered sex addiction reverberates throughout a family.

Partners, you need support as you heal from the devastation and trauma caused by the actions of your loved one who is caught in the throes of sexual addiction. As the Co-Director of the LifeSTAR Program, I have many years of experience working with the partners of people with sexually complusive behavior and I can help you decide if the LifeSTAR Program is right for you and your spouse. I have helped many couples rebuild trust and create new emotional and sexual intimacy in their relationships. I can help you.

As they say in Al-Anon: "You didn't cause it, create it, nor can you control it".....

But you can heal from it. I can help you. Call me: 408-966-3312.